This song was written by Ken the Friday after the funeral of Ken’s dear Aunt Rita from Rhode Island. Rita was such a wonderful lady whom Ken was always eager to visit. Many times he would spend the summer with her and her husband. Rita was the sister of Ken’s mother Eva and the two of them visited pretty often.
The funeral really took it’s toll on Ken and there were several times he would break down crying so hard; his mother comforted him and just hugged him until he stopped sobbing.
When Ken was able to get up the words to describe how his Aunt Rita made an impact on his life, he began writing. On June 22nd, 1990, the song was finished within two hours.
Ken’s Aunt Rita steered him straight when he drifted away many times. Spending many summers in Pawtucket, Rhode Island, they would venture off to Jamestown and finally into Newport. It was one summer when Ken understood the phrase ‘off your rocker’ after saying this about his Uncle Bob. Bob really was off his rocker…and Ken wanted to sit in it before he got back. Rita misunderstood Ken and informed him what that phrase really meant. Of course it was not meant they way it came out, but looking back now, it must have been pretty funny for such a young kid to be saying such a thing. They probably laughed over it that evening after everyone went to bed. Things kids say.
Rita has a very distinctive laugh that could be heard in a crowd of people all talking. When she laughed, she made others laugh; making the happiness ‘so worth while’.
Although Ken has not remixed this song yet, it is coming soon. Ken wants to re-capture the same feeling he had when he wrote the song just over 21 years ago. The song is sung as a ballad and he always envisioned mostly piano music in the background with a soft slower beat.