You Don’t Love Me wasn’t written about Ken.
The song talks about being in a relationship and the heartbreak of two people splitting up; eventually getting divorced. The song is sung from a male point of view about how difficult it is to let his wife go. It is a very sad time for many friends of the couple, especially the ones going through the break up.
Being able to go to the couple’s home, listen to good country music, play cards or board games, and have a few drinks is always fun. So many memories of those times are always wonderful…until is doesn’t happen anymore. The realization of a break up effects more than just one person’s heart.